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Mommy (not kiddies) Playdate Thursday May 9th

Good Vibrations Mommy Playdate

Please join me in Oakland for

Special Mothers’ Day Mommy’s Playdate at Good Vibrations
Thursday, May 9th
Happy Hour: 5:00 pm – 7:00 pm at the Easy Lounge, 3255 Lakeshore, just up the street!
Mommy’s Playdate: 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm

Put down the diaper bag, hide from your teenager, and forget the in-laws. It’s all about YOU Darling this week yes, Good Vibrations has scheduled a special Mommy’s Playdate just in time for Mother’s Day, a fun, after-hours mixer for moms. Staff sexologist and renowned author/expert, Dr. Carol Queen tells it like is about sex after kids, including libido boosters, kegel exercisers and beyond. Plus! Mommy author and blogger and radio host Shar Rednour of Love, Life & Sex on shares her tips on sex after kids and explaining sex to kids. Join like-minded moms at this fun, mommies-only mixer. Plus enter to win a Good Vibrations “Sexy Starter Kit!” Enjoy a specially discounted mommi-tini at the Easy Lounge* from 5-7, then join us for the playdate!

Decadent Chocolate Cake & Bondage with author Stephanie Rosenbaum

Food journalist and author Stephanie Rosenbaum ties up Michelle Meow with Shar’s help. Shar wants to demonstrate her new bondage ties by Luz de la Riva! Decadent chocolate cake from The Astrology Cookbook and more femme adventures. Thanks to Manic D Press for publishing such an awesome book. PS: Good Vibrations stores in the bay area have it in stock.


Don’t Mate with the Wrong Person in the First Place!

Okay this video goes from GUSH the g-spot movie to advice on long term relationships to the Hustler Devilish vibrator tried out.

Shar’s 20th anniversary of falling in love with Jackie is coming up soon. So comedian Belinda Carroll asked Shar about queer long term relationship secrets. Then Michelle Meow can’t stop talking about G-spots. Finally Michelle and Shar demonstrate a hot pink vibe.


“I Screwed a Married Man in Uniform–& Faked My Orgasm”

This Love, Life & Sex listener wrote in quite a question. Are you more worried about her realizing he’s bad in bed or that he is married? Lastly Shar reveals her wish for a big bus of lube to take her on tour!

Join Michelle Meow and the fabulous Swirl Family on SwirlRadio -dot- com.

Beauty Porn: From Zombie Anti-Porn Anti-Feminist to the Indulgent Visual

Hair Porn!

Just when you think you can skip into the feminist porn woods curious as to what sexual entertainment or education you might find there, beware Dorothy! Now Zombie Anti-porn alleged-feminists are in the fun-sexuality woods on the hunt. They are actually not feminists–It’s clear from their actions that they do not believe in equality among genders (aka Feminism). Their efforts are indeed Zombie because they are from the dead anti-porn feminists only now it’s grosser because all the stench and extra burden of rotting flesh from HAVING BEEN DEAD SO LONG. As we all know, Zombies multiply like bunnies so these idiots are not alone in their attacks, just sit in Congress.

Tyra Banks Shoe Porn

Tyra Banks Shoes are so great they are Shoe Porn

LOVING HOMAGES TO PORN what this article is really about…

Meanwhile, back in the everyday world [where the majority of people forget that extremists constantly try to steal our sexual power and we are just going on with our daily lives] I would propose that porn is not a scary word and as a matter of fact is used as something close to flattery.

When someone wants to show or indulge in something that they love it’s often called “porn.” There is shoeporn (dot) com for people who love shoes. There is foodporndaily (dot) com which is gorgeous pictures of food. In Off Beat Bride there is “wedding porn.” No it’s not people in wedding dresses having sex. It’s,  you know, such great wedding indulgence that they call it wedding porn. That’s all.

There are endless pinterest pages for all kinds of indulgences aka porn including “decorator porn,” “hair porn” and even “popcorn porn.” There’s guitarporn in the UK and that’s just one of many in the guitar porn category. There is cabinet porn where the owner of the site tells us what lovely antique cabinets should be put back into production because they were the best cabinets ever.

There’s even fountain pen porn for us writers who really really just drool over a luxurious fountain pen.

montblanc fountain-pen porn

Lickable Fountain Pens are Porn to Writers


So if porn is purported to be such an unacceptable thing then why is the word thrown around in a such a complimentary manner?

Jackie and I used to make porn. We named our company S.I.R. for Sex Indulgence and Rock-n-Roll. Indulgence described everything in between. And now “porn” means indulgence–not just any sloppy indulgence, mind you, but gorgeous indulgence. Look at any of these sites I listed above and you will see that they were made with respect, care and love for whatever subject they are captivated by. Frankly, I don’t think most people are very upset about porn nor care. That’s why they lovingly use the word to mean “a visual or aural indulgence of a subject adored.” I will take credit for that definition.

wedding porn

Off Beat Bride has Wedding Porn


So back to the woods. We must always guard against those who want to monitor and criminalize sexuality. Alas, we don’t get to rest when it comes to civil liberties. So get out your sword…hold on…wait a sec…looking up sword porn. Yep there is it pictures of high quality swords “A Peter Lyon Gallery” and he writes, “Lock the door and shut the blinds. Because it’s just alone time with you and the swords baby.” Ahhh, how he loves swords and his fellow sword admirers so much so that he made sword porn for them. And that’s what we did when we made our S.I.R. porn for you.

Jackie Strano in The Swirl with Michelle Meow

My wife Jackie Strano Executive VP of Good Vibrations is an amazing vocalist. She is throwing a benefit for The Ali Forney Center on Saturday night Jan 19th at The Starry Plough in Berkeley.

Here she is in the studio with Michelle Meow–excellent interview with 2 songs!

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The Femme’s Guide to the Universe Available as Audio Book

The Femme’s Guide to the Universe is now available on Audio!

Please go listen to the free sample to hear me purring every word into your ears. I made it with love, LOTS of love. XOXO

101 Uses for [Abandoned] Sexy G-strings / Thongs

Hi Rainy Day–I wanna see you. Let’s tie back the curtain with a girly sexy thong

Let’s face it–even I, Shar Rednour, promotor of parents having sexy date nights and keeping their love alive physically and sexually, yes even I have got to admit that I do not use these sexy thongs for their original purpose anymore. Pah-leeze. Sex is often after an hour of reading The Wind in the Willows aloud or indulging our youngest in mega tooth sharkon youtube. I do not wear thongs for bad quality mega-tooth shark videos!

I am listing this picture as my #2 since using them for hair ties would be the number 1 use. Can I add a “duhhh” ala 80s valley girl to that statement without annoying you?

between too-small-for-the-boys spiderman underwear and my pile of lonely g-strings I am never without a hair-tie.

please send your other uses and I will add them–I am sure we can come up with 101 uses for abandoned sexy g-strings or thongs.

PS: don’t forget to hit my “like” button below so more people will join in the fun! thanks.


#1 as a hair tie

#2 to pull back curtains

The Anti-Spa SPA treatment! Shaving for moms

Even with house-slippers on and the kiddie stool at the toilet you can get those rascally hairs.

Yes shaving for moms and other people who do not have the time or take the time treat every shaving session like it’s Spa Day at The Claremont! I never go for these gimmicky things but this one really worked. Shaving easy the first time ever!

Jackie and I got in a fight once about money and I said, “listen, the true evidence that we have officially moved into middle-class despite not having a 401k or savings account is the razors I buy. She laughed and said “you’re right.”

I now buy a fancy expensive razor BECAUSE it works. I love it. Before I go more into finance and helping you save $ buying it let me give you the review of the Venus Spa Breeze by Gillette. It has the little gel pillows on the top and bottom of the razor. I’ve seen it before and didn’t even pay attention. They looked like little rubber teething rings to my eyes. Sorry. But one day the word “sensitive” caught my eye, I had a coupon and what the heck, I bought it.
The Venus Spa Breeze is perfect for moms and women on the go.(see my last line for coupon)

You get it wet, slick it around your body and bam you are done. We have a shower stall that you have to stand in–which makes shaving all the more dangerous. No nicks, no ouchies, no boo boos. I used it everywhere. I did get bikini line bumps when I didn’t go back and shave soon enough. I did not get them though from simply shaving and I did not get them when I shaved often. Take it out of the shower between uses, let it air dry and store properly if you want to use it again.

Let me know what you find price wise. Luckily I had $6 CVS bucks plus a coupon or honestly I never would have bought it the first time. In the San Francisco Bay Area I cannot find them for less than $14. Target said $10 online which was cheaper than all except Amazon.  Now I get refills on Amazon. Be sure to click open the “Special Offers Available” link that is so subtlety sitting below the price line. That will open up a $2 coupon that you can apply to purchase.

KOFY break! TV break that is

I have been with some of my Swirlians Michelle Meow and Simma The Inclusionist at KOFY TV recording for National Coming Out Day.

In this first picture I look kinda serious but I wanted you to see it because I so carefully rearranged the set so that the viewer could see my shoes through the vase. At first the director was doing it then he finally said “Just put it where you want it.” I am wearing my Fierce Queer Femme T-shirt by recording artist Nicky Click and a cool fringe skirt that I picked up at the Benicia Witch Faire.

Shar on the set of KOFY TV with Swirl


And here is another. October 13th we host a Gimme a Break Marathon then our first Swirl TV show airs! We choose to celebrate National Coming Out Day as our first show. Our “pilot” if you will.

Shar On KOFY TV with Michelle Meow of Swirl

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