For the first years of parenting we had sex in the …where? Okay let me think. We did have sex. Yes yes I remember talking about it or needing it. I definitely know we had sex because I didn’t kill anyone due to a bad hormonal imbalance.Yes yes something is ringing a bell. We did have sex. But I always got upset about lighting and music. I wanted the closet light on with the door almost-but-not-quite shut. Just so. Frustrated that our CD player ended up in the boys room for nursery rhymes. YOU try to get something sexy on a clock radio! Finally finding a 70s channel is the best one can do. Believe me I have put time into this.