November 9th, 2012
I have been with some of my Swirlians Michelle Meow and Simma The Inclusionist at KOFY TV recording for National Coming Out Day.
In this first picture I look kinda serious but I wanted you to see it because I so carefully rearranged the set so that the viewer could see my shoes through the vase. At first the director was doing it then he finally said “Just put it where you want it.” I am wearing my Fierce Queer Femme T-shirt by recording artist Nicky Click and a cool fringe skirt that I picked up at the Benicia Witch Faire.
Shar on the set of KOFY TV with Swirl
And here is another. October 13th we host a Gimme a Break Marathon then our first Swirl TV show airs! We choose to celebrate National Coming Out Day as our first show. Our “pilot” if you will.
Shar On KOFY TV with Michelle Meow of Swirl
October 15th, 2012
Last Saturday night, October 13th brought out Citizen Swirl debut TV show.
Jon Branfman, Shar Rednour, Simma Lieberman, Cecilia Chung,
Mynx D’meanor & Michelle Meow
October 11th was National Coming Out day and KOFY producers invited us to use that opportunity to bring our radio show to the Telley. Swirl has been an awesome radio show with Michelle Meow at the helm.
The episode focused on Coming Out issues with Michelle interviewing Jon Branfman from Equalize Youth; and human rights activist, LGBT Grand Marshall and SF Health Commissioner Cecilia Chung.
SF Health Commissioner
The Lovely Mynx D’Meanor from Fishnet Follies
We ended with a drop dead gorgeous burlesque by Mynx D’ meaner.
Simma the Inclusionist joined me on the couch with her rants about the Romney ticket as I advised on Love Life & Sex with Michelle asking all the important questions.
Did you miss it? Wish it were on Youtube? well it’s not. Old fashioned TV. Next I will warn you and I hope you find a friend with a DVR if you think it’s not YOU to stay in on a Saturday night or decide to have a viewing party like I did and making staying in THE thing to do!
September 28th, 2012
Love, Life & Sex: Help me find that special transguy to date –NOT online! Part 1: Shar here. I am calling this “part 1” because I used this listener’s question as an opportunity to teach a trick that has been very successful in creating long-term relationship regardless of the person’s gender, orientation, region, et. al. It helps in almost all situations. I picked this question to share my secret because the listener was fed up with online dating. THAT said, I really want to get in deep about some of the online dating and questions that my trans friends have brought up, so that will be part 2. I will bring some helpful folks right into studio with me. Stay tuned. Until then, listen up and try this at home!
September 17th, 2012
Kandi Burruss Make Me Over! on Love, Life & SexKandi Burruss came to Oakland for the Good Vibrations Oakland store opening and boy did she Make Me Over. That’s the name of one of her new sex toys in Bedroom Kandi. On this episode of Love, Life & Sex Michelle Meow is very concerned about lesbians being discreet! She keeps telling Shar this toy is perfect for lesbians who can go use it at the bathroom. Well…you decide for yourself.
This lipstick and compact affect your mood more than a makeover!
September 10th, 2012
Love, Life & Sex: Retired, single and sad
Some weeks shows are more intense than others. I am so grateful for the honesty in this week’s question. “I am 65 and single and I don’t think I will ever date again. I do not need advice on vibrators or orgasms I was screwing before you even born little lady. But now when I masturbate I actually cry. I am sad and lonely. It makes me miss my previous lovers. It makes me not want to masturbate. What do you think I should do?” Listen in the Love, Life & Sex to hear some suggestions for true heartache when sex reminds you of old loves.
September 7th, 2012
Love, Life & Sex: How to Use a Hitachi Magic Wand “Scared in Albany” writes, “I followed my friend’s advice and bought the hitachi magic wand. It’s huge! I’m too embarrassed to tell my friend I don’t know what to do with it. I opened it, then closed it, then put it back then to the bottom of the closet.”
Shar explains how to use a Hitachi magic wand. It’s not the most exciting looking toy but it can give fantastic orgasms.
September 7th, 2012
Love, Life & Sex: Strong Femmes and Shy Guys Click that link to hear my answer to: “How does a femme own her sexual power without scaring away the shy butches, transguys, or bois or the ones who need to think they need to be in control?” This is the question in my Love, Life & Sex INBOX. Wow, that’s the story of my life. I share some advice to help strong women to find their equals. Here’s a few tricks to set your potential loves at ease using your Goddess Power Adapter instead of pulling the whole Diva plug right out of the socket!
September 3rd, 2012
Love, Life & Sex: That Wascally Wabbit This week’s episode goes on a Rabbit Hunt! Love, Life & Sex listener Jennifer says, “You know that toy that has beads that twirl around, bunny rabbit on the top–it starts to feel like a blender.” She wants help getting a “inside and outside toy.” Shar advises on how to save your dollars until you know what you want. She talks about the Fifi by Je Joue vs butterfly kiss.
August 30th, 2012
Love, Life & Sex: Younger femmes & older butches Is it all about sex and power? Some people think that the older butch is on a power trip or that they are just big horn-dogs wanting sex with younger hottie babes. Let’s Blow the BS out of this baby right now. Always the wisest flirt, Femmepress Shar helps her baby femme out while setting the record straight.